it's simple

Step 1: you open the game and click free play,
Step 2: click random joints to practice and familiarize yourself with your tori,
Step 3: play on the servers you want to gain experience
Step 4: finally you repeat this 3 simple steps


trust me i was a total noob and had no idea how to play this game but once I played it more and gain some friends i became familiarize of the mechanics of the game