1. gahhh

2. Toribash 3.8 (not beta).. Go to toribash.com, press download and there you go.

3. Flames. You can buy some from the market subforum. If you want to make your own flames, buy a flame forger from the boosters section for 25$

4. Turn on shaders. To do this, from the menu go to options - setup - shaders
Something like that..