i have the newest toribash and i am trying to make a server but its failing!

i have a shortcut for toribash.exe and the target is:

"CProgram Files\Toribash-2.75\toribash.exe" -p 20184 -m 120 -g 0 -t 10 -r 20 -f 3 -s 0 -e 100 -j 0 -l 100 -c 100 -d 0 -C 12 -T 5 -L "toriserver.log" -N "Toribash Server" -R "changeme" -A 3 -M "Welcome to Toribash!" -o "default.tbm"

I added 127.0.0.1:20184 "my server" to serverlist.txt

and i port forwarded the port 20184

but when i try and connect to server 31 in my serverlist it cannot connect.

whats am i doing wrong?