Hm, when i joined the game i played single player for like a year or so, then when i finally got an email and got my lazy ass to mp, boom, i went from yellow servers to semipro servers in like a month.
Play multiplayer and try to play against tougher opponents. At least, thar's how i learned.
Oh, and press c in the beginning of each match, later on, you can skip that. No rush tho.
@Chamara he only tried to help. As far as i know, this is a guy who started playing a day ago. He doesent know anything about madmans, realism, or ORMO.