after 2-3min of being in a multiplayer sever, toribash stops working and I get a notification saying its not responding. I tried deleting toribash and redownloading it several times but it still happens. is it a bug or do I still need to do something else

I get that too. Is your router on? It could just be a server problem.

It may be because your too far away from your internet, or theres too much of it being used that you don't have.